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Teaching Character | Implementing Character | Character Links

Teaching Character

As a teacher or a parent, whether you intend to or not, you ARE teaching character. If you discipline a child for cheating on a test or stealing candy from the store, you are teaching that youngster that dishonesty is a trait to be avoided. Every time you make a decision or place value on one thing over another you are demonstrating the content of your character….and in so doing……….teaching what qualities are important in your own life. So the question really isn’t: “Will I teach character?” or even “Do I have time to teach character?” The real question should be “How can I both model and teach good character to those whom I influence?” or “How can I help my students or my children develop skills and the internal motivation to ‘do what’s right even when no one is looking’?”

CONTENTS ON THIS SITE:

We hope you will find information on this site helpful. The character site will include the following:

  1. Compassion
  2. Persuasiveness
  3. Altertness
  4. Wisdom
  5. Character
  6. Attentiveness

- Why is character education necessary?

- Implementing Character Education in your school

Character Education In Darke County Ohio - Click Here

  1. Darke County Character Council
  2. Monthly traits and suggestions for implementation
  3. Recommended Resources that supplement teaching character (books, videos, etc), including the REACH Character Brochures
  4. Suggested activities to teach character to children

- Links to other websites that discuss character

Why is Character Education Necessary?
(The following information has been adapted from “Developing Habits of the Heart”, a character curriculum by Valerie Huber)

Why Character?

Since the beginning of formal education, teaching to the heart of the child has been every bit as important as teaching to the mind. >From Aristotle to our Founding Fathers to McGuffy - all realized that knowledge apart from virtue was of little value and indeed, could be very dangerous.


What is Character?

Aristotle defined good character as “right conduct, continually expressed through virtuous behavior toward oneself (such as self control, and self respect) and toward others (such as kindness and respect)”. These two parts of character are inseparable because the conduct we demonstrate toward ourselves affects others and how we act toward others affects ourselves as well. For example, if a person demonstrates self control by refraining from taking something that belongs to another (even though he might really want it), that person has demonstrated not merely self control, but also respect for another’s property, thus impacting self-oriented virtues and other-oriented virtues.


Why is Character Important?

Collectively, our Founding Fathers understood that a nation of freedom could never continue its existence apart from the moral restraint of its citizens (that is, the knowledge of right and wrong and conduct based on that understanding). A cursory study of the writings and lives of our Founders demonstrates that self control and sacrifice were virtues that propelled their courageous decision to put all their worldly interests at stake to gain freedom from England. Many did, indeed, lose their fortunes, their properties, or even their families, as a result of their decision – thus practically demonstrating the interconnectedness between self-oriented and other-oriented virtues.


The schools of the colonial and revolutionary era continued the Aristotelian practice of teaching to both the heart and the mind. A contemporary of this era, Daniel Webster, summed up the dual purpose of education:

“Knowledge does not comprise all which is contained in the large term ‘education’. The feelings are to be disciplined, the passions are to be restrained, true and worthy motives are to be instilled, and pure morality inculcated under all circumstances. All this is comprised in education “


Throughout American history, educators and learned leaders have seen the necessity of teaching and reinforcing simple virtues such as honesty, respect and responsibility. McGuffey and his Readers were developed to connect reading with the understanding of moral truths. Each story put practical examples of virtue to the forefront, taught character lessons and then stressed the importance of that behavior. These Readers have endured time and are even enjoying a renewed appreciation because people again understand the need for teaching virtue along with knowledge.


President Theodore Roosevelt has been often quoted with his discerning comment: “To educate a person in mind and not in morals is to educate a menace to society”. Think about that statement for a moment and it doesn’t take long to connect horrific events in history for validity of those words. Hitler, considered by many to be a genius, sought the annihilation of entire races and groups of people. The teens that stormed the library at Columbine High School knew that murder was wrong, but lacked the character virtues of respect for others, self-control and kindness – and so killed many of their classmates in unbridled anger. Background checks of death row inmates would find that a great many of them are intelligent (many extremely intelligent) individuals who used their intelligence for evil rather than good, and so Theodore Roosevelt spoke volumes when he connected moral training to education in knowledge.


Societal ills have never been solved by knowledge or merely understanding the problem. If that were the case, then we should never see drug use among doctors or tax evasion among lawyers or STDs among epidemiologists. Knowing the dangers of risk behaviors have never translated into healthy risk-free behavior until the person has character strength along with their gained knowledge to make good decisions. Former U.S. Congressman, J.C. Watts, said it very well when he said, “Character is who you are when nobody is looking”. Character is the foundation that makes sense of every action and circumstance in life.


What are the components of good character?

One of the foremost modern-day authorities and champions for character education is Thomas Likona. He presents the following as essential components of good character in his book, Educating for Character:

“Character – has three interrelated parts: moral knowing, moral feeling and moral behavior. Good character consists of knowing the good, desiring the good and doing the good – habits of the mind, habits of the heart and habits of action. All three are necessary for leading a moral life; all three make up moral maturity. When we think about the kind of character we want for our children, its’ clear that we want them to be able to judge what is right, care deeply about what is right, and then do what they believe to be right – even in the face of pressure from without and temptation from within”.

What Mr. Likona is saying is that even peer pressure pales in comparison to the character strength one has inside – if it is nurtured and developed. Good character is not something one can learn in elementary school and then be set for life. Character is learned, esteemed, habitually acted upon, and fine-tuned over the entire course of one’s life. Developing and strengthening character is a lifelong process that should begin when one is very young and then expand and integrate all life experiences. Knowing the good and then doing the virtuous should be the foundational principle of wise decision-making. Wisdom understands how to use acquired knowledge wisely and then acts upon that understanding.

Does character education really make a difference?


Several studies have been done to test the effectiveness of character education. The results have all been similar – pointing to a marked decrease in behavioral referrals in the classroom, and increased teaching time because more time can be spent on activities related to learning rather than discipline. Those results were to be expected, but perhaps more surprising was an increase in test scores and decrease in student absence and in teacher attrition after character education was implemented in a school. Teacher and student satisfaction and positive anticipation for school were directly related to the school environment. Tests scores increased because distractions were reduced, and respect for the teacher and learning increased. Character education impacts the total school in a similar way to its effect on the individual internalizing character qualities- building, strengthening and improving both.


Whose Character Qualities Should be taught?


This question is frequently asked with concern and an askance eye. Of course, this is a very important question and one that certainly deserves discussion. Recently, character education has become a favorite topic for those who have less than honorable goals. Some have sought to hide their political agendas under the guise of “character education”. The character qualities that will be mentioned on this site, however, are those qualities that transcend time, place, and ethnicity; in other words, the virtues are universal, and esteemed throughout history and the world. Respect & responsibility, for example, are of major importance. It is respect that keeps us from doing what we shouldn’t do to harm others; and it is responsibility that causes us to act upon what we know we should do. They are essentially two sides of the same coin. One cannot operate in a vacuum apart from the other and one will find that many virtues have components that overlap other character qualities. For example, if we are honest, then we will show respect for others by not stealing. Honesty, however, also demonstrates responsibility when we admit that we’ve done wrong and are willing to suffer the consequences of our actions.


Special emphasis will be given to the monthly character qualities adopted by the Darke County Character Council in partnership with Character First! This emphasis and supplementary information will be helpful to teachers who wish to implement these qualities in their


How Can I teach character when I have so many other mandated requirements on my school day?


This is another valid question! The increasing requirements of proficiency tests, school report cards, and the myriad of federal and state mandates, easily gobbles up the bulk of the school day. Rather than being another “class” that one must prepare for, teach, and test – character education should be a school wide infusion of character principles. The weekly introduction of the principle, by teacher, counselor, or volunteer, can take as little as 15 minutes. After that time, other reinforcement and teaching of the quality can be infused into the regular school day.


Here are a few examples:

Most students are required to write in a journal. A topic for the journal entry can be related to the character quality currently being stressed. Most students are also given silent reading assignments. A book can be chosen where the character exemplifies the quality being studied. Inside recesses are often a part of winter schedules and “movie treats” are often given as incentives for good behavior. Both of these examples are ideal places to show a video that stresses the character quality being studied. Bulletin boards can talk about the qualities; discipline measures can include positive reinforcement for exemplifying strength of character. For example, rather than limiting discipline only to correction, good behavior can be rewarded and encouraged by giving students “I’ve been caught being respectful “ stickers (which may be redeemed for special privileges) when he/she shows respect to another. Every subject can strengthen the teaching of the highlighted character quality, taking absolutely no time from actual instruction. Character education is really about looking for those teachable moments throughout the day and then seizing them!


Character education is a commitment to a mindset rather than committing to a particular curriculum. It changes the way we see the day and the opportunities encompassed within that day. It erases territorial issues and resolves to work in one accord for the good of the student. Honesty, for example, should be expected in the classroom for homework assignments, in the lunchroom for meal purchase, on the playground for interpersonal relationships, and in the principal’s office when dealing with a discipline issue.


Effective character education, then, should be a commitment for every person on staff at your school - teachers, administrators, lunchroom attendants, custodians, librarians, and recesses monitors. Each person, on the same page, will be so much more effective in teaching, reinforcing, and expecting behavior of character, than one person – working independently of all others.


This is also true for parents. Most families regard character strengths as important and vital to their family structure and maintenance. Others would like to teach character to their children, but don’t have the skills to do so. A few have absolutely no interest in character training. We realize that the family is the most important place where education takes place and parents have a unique responsibility for teaching character to their children. That is why the “Home Works” section on this site is an integral part. These short letters to parents present what the highlighted quality for the week is, explain the content of the lesson, suggest discussion questions for parent and child and then give ideas for home implementation of that quality. In so doing, it strengthens the message of those parents who are already doing a fine job in teaching character to their children, gives ideas to those parents who are not currently teaching character to their children, but would like to, and hopefully, causes those parents who have no interest in virtue to give second thoughts to their values.


Further, we know that any message, heard in many ways and by a variety of people, will be given more serious consideration.


Character, as discussed earlier, is not a “course” where one can “learn” definitions and then be competent or “be character literate”. Character choices affect every moment of our existence. We are called upon to use those strengths at the most inopportune times and places. Robert Woodson, the motivator behind many inner-city revitalization projects and author of The Triumphs of Joseph, recently told an audience that each day he commits to “doing the right thing, especially when it’s inconvenient”. This is the value we can give to our students – tomorrow’s leaders. Strength of character will give them the courage to say “no” when tempted to make a bad decision. They must know that throughout life, they will be called upon to make choices, some easy, some difficult. It is the choices they make, that will define them as individuals, which will cause them to be considered as individuals of integrity. Consider this quote by John Ruskin, an English sociologist and philanthropist from the 19th Century:


“Education does not mean teaching people what they do not know. It means teaching them to behave as they do not behave. It is not teaching the youth the shapes of letters and the tricks of numbers, and then leaving them to turn their arithmetic to roguery, and their literature to lust. It means, on the contrary, training them into the perfect exercise and kingly continence of their bodies and souls. It is a painful, continual and difficult work to be done by kindness, by watching, by warning, by precept and by praise, but above all – by example.”

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